Archives: Kind Treatment of Spouses

The limits within which a married couple may enjoy intimacy with one another, and the ruling on a man suckling from his wife

August 18, 2014 | By islamqalive | No Comments | Filed in: Kind Treatment of Spouses.

Is it permissible for a man to suck on his wife’s breasts during intercourse?. Praise be to Allaah.   The husband may enjoy intimacy with his wife in whatever way he wishes; the only thing that is forbidden is anal intercourse and intercourse during the wife’s menstrual period or nifaas (post-partum bleeding). Apart from that, • Read More »

Sarah’s Jealousy Towards Hajar

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Praise be to Allaah. A woman’s jealousy towards her co-wives is something that is entirely natural, and it is not something that only some woman feel and not others. Hence she will not be called to account for it unless she transgresses the limits and lets it lead to wronging her sister, which is something • Read More »

Ruling on her going out of the house without her husband’s permission and travelling without a mahram

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Praise be to Allaah. Firstly: The husband should uphold ties with his wife’s family and treat them well. This is part of treating his wife kindly, because doing that makes her happy and earns him respect in her eyes, and increases the love and affection between them. Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning): “and live • Read More »

She screamed in her husband’s face although she had made a promise to Allaah that she would stop doing that

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Praise be to Allaah. Firstly: We ask Allaah to bless you with patience, calmness and a good attitude, and to increase the love that exists between you and your husband. Secondly: What is prescribed in Islam is for the spouses to interact in a manner that will create love and strengthen the marital bond; each • Read More »

Can he force his family to move far away from him so that they will not live in a kaafir land?

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Praise be to Allaah.   Firstly: It is not permissible to take lightly the matter of living in a kaafir land, because that has bad effects on the Muslim’s religious commitment and beliefs (‘aqeedah). Hence the Messenger (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) warned us against settling among the kuffaar, and he said: • Read More »

What is the ruling on gheelah in Islam?

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Praise be to Allaah. It was said that gheelah means having intercourse with a wife who is breastfeeding, or it was said that it means a pregnant woman breastfeeding her child. It is reported in Saheeh Muslim (1442) that the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “I had thought • Read More »

Is it permissible for the spouses to be naked when having intercourse without any cover?

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Praise be to Allaah. Prohibition (tahreem) is an Islamic ruling which cannot be attributed to sharee’ah without sound shar’i evidence that is proven from the Book of Allaah or the Sunnah of His Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him). The majority of Hanafi, Shaafa’i and Maaliki scholars are of the view that • Read More »

Does a wife have the right to refuse intimacy with her husband during Ramadaan for the purpose of worship?

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Praise be to Allaah. Firstly: The month of Ramadaan is an important occasion for worshippers to increase their worship and for sinners to give up their ways and reconcile themselves with their Lord by giving up their sin and doing more acts of worship and obedience, so that they may turn over a new leaf • Read More »

He “divorced” his wife by zihaar and swore that he would not have intercourse with her until he was pleased with her

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Praise be to Allaah. Firstly: If you swore that you would not have intercourse with your wife until you were pleased with her, and indeed you did not have intercourse with her until you were pleased with her, then there is no sin on you for this oath, because you did not break it. Secondly: • Read More »

Intercourse in the back passage

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Praise be to Allaah. Firstly: The fuqaha’ are agreed that it is haraam to have intercourse with a menstruating woman in her vagina, because Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning): “keep away from women during menses and go not unto them till they are purified (from menses and have taken a bath).” [al-Baqarah 2:222] And • Read More »

He talks to women and looks at promiscuous sites on the internet, and his wife objects

August 18, 2014 | By islamqalive | No Comments | Filed in: Kind Treatment of Spouses.

Praise be to Allaah. Firstly: If the matter is as you describe, and you waste your time on the internet with things that are of no benefit, and that lead you to sin, by watching promiscuous programs and talking to non-mahram women, and sleeping and missing obligatory prayers, and neglecting your work, there is no • Read More »

His wife’s family stipulated that he has to become rich before they will send his wife and children back to him

August 18, 2014 | By islamqalive | No Comments | Filed in: Kind Treatment of Spouses.

Praise be to Allaah. Firstly: The wife has no right to go out of her husband’s house without his permission, and her family have no right to help her or encourage her to do that, because her leaving and not returning constitute disobedience towards her husband and rebellion against him which makes her guilty of • Read More »

He insists that his wife go out to pray ‘Isha’ and Taraweeh whilst he stays with his daughter

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Praise be to Allaah. Firstly: Prayer in congregation in the mosque is obligatory for men according to the more correct of the two scholarly opinions, because of a great deal of evidence to that effect, which has been quoted in the answer to question no. 120. Taraweeh prayer is a confirmed Sunnah (Sunnah mu’akkadah), and • Read More »

Should she ask for a divorce from her husband who does not pray regularly and does not give her her rights?

August 18, 2014 | By islamqalive | No Comments | Filed in: Kind Treatment of Spouses.

Praise be to Allaah. Marriage is one of the signs and blessings of Allaah, in which both spouses find peace, companionship, love and compassion, as well as keeping themselves chaste and producing righteous children to populate the earth in accordance with the laws of Allaah. Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning): “And among His Signs • Read More »

Her mother approved of the fiancé then she rejected him. Is she sinning if she marries him?

August 18, 2014 | By islamqalive | No Comments | Filed in: Kind Treatment of Spouses.

Praise be to Allaah. Firstly: We ask Allaah to bless you and to join you together in goodness, and to bless you with righteous offspring. Secondly: If the matter is as you describe, and your wife’s mother is suffering from psychological problems, and she approved of you at first, then there is no sin on • Read More »